Alternately titled; What Ever Happened to Professional Courtesy?*
A few months ago, I applied to be a long-term sub at a local school. I didn’t get the gig (it went to the intern working under the teacher who was leaving, which makes perfect sense to me), but after I got word that I’d been passed over, I sent a polite, professional email to the department head asking for feedback about my interview. When I didn’t hear anything back from her (which seemed incongruous, given the impression she gave me when we met), I re-sent the email (with a preface saying I wasn’t sure it sent correctly the first time, to let her save face). I have yet to hear a peep back.
Then, a few weeks ago, I caught wind of a job opening at a different nearby school district. I put together a packet of all the things the posting asked for, crafted a solid cover letter, put everything in a professional folder, put that in a nice envelope, put on some nice clothes, and drove the packet to the district office. That afternoon, I followed up on the delivery with a short, polite note to the principal of the school in question, introducing myself, directing him to my website, and making myself available at his convenience to meet or talk on the phone.
Here’s what I want to know; just how fucking hard is it to hit “reply” and send back a quick “thank you for your interest in our school; I look forward to reading your resume” note? Not that hard, one would think, but I’ve gotten precisely bupkis from this guy. Nothing. Are you old enough to remember getting post card confirmations that your resume had been received by personnel offices? Yeah; that doesn’t happen anymore, either.
Flapping in the breeze is a very uncomfortable feeling. I get that the market is flooded, and I get that employers can afford to be dismissive and impolite to job seekers, but that doesn’t make it right. At the very least, let us know that our resumes got to someone’s desk and please, if someone sends you a personal email, do them the basic courtesy of a brief reply. So many of us are putting our hearts out on the block for impossibly long stretches of time; don’t further demoralize us by ignoring our communications and pretending we don’t exist.
*this is reposted from Teacher’s Education; you’re not seeing double.